A poem ...
The Place Where You Are Now
This place where you are right now
God circled on a map for you.
Wherever your eyes and arms and heart can move
Against the earth and the sky,
The Beloved has bowed there –
Our Beloved has bowed there knowing
You were coming.
I could tell you a priceless secret about
Your real worth, dear pilgrim,
But any unkindness to yourself,
Any confusion about others,
Will keep one
From accepting the grace, the love,
The sublime freedom
Divine knowledge always offers to you.
Never mind, Hafiz, about
The great requirements this path demands
Of the wayfarers,
For your soul is too full of wine tonight
To withhold the wondrous Truth from this world.
But because I am so clever and generous,
I have already clearly woven a resplendent lock
Of his tresses
As a remarkable truth and gift
In this poem for you.
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What does it mean to Destiny Jump™?
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The short answer first: To HAVE exactly what you want in life and feel 1000% aligned, powerful and living on purpose.
The longer answer includes knowing how destiny and fate differ because you then get to tune into your life and your choices and realize where you are choosing fate instead of destiny. Very empowering thing to do.
Meditate on this: Choice.
Fate is this- if you are not thrilled about every area of your life- and you continue to live and do nothing to take full responsibility and change it, your life or that area of your life will have a certain story. ie. What's my purpose, how do I fully monetize and actualize my real purpose work in the world?
If you do not take solving this question seriously now and do what it takes to answer the call- life will look the same in 25 years. That's FATE.
The story from one area eventually bleeds over into other areas and soon what was once just emotional, becomes physical or financial, or spiritual, or relationships-- you get it, it's a holistic picture.
Fate is the outcome that is congruent with exactly where you are nowand the story you're telling now unless you choose something else completely.
Destiny is an option. Destiny requires choice. Not half in choice, it's all in- back doors closed, maybe out the window, choice.
What I know to be true is most people think they're choosing what they want but they're just choosing to want what they want. Not actually choosing the desired outcome.
I'll be teaching a special technique around this in Destiny Jump™ my live January 30th, 2016 workshop in New York City. here I've seen impeccable income strategies and plans around health, wealth, business, relationship... crumble without having this component of the Visioning process dialed in. I've seen meager simple strategies sky rocket success because the actualizer used my Destiny Jump™ technique.
Destiny Jump™ does not have to be a giant leap, huge life change, or epic right turn. Destiny Jump™ is a process I've designed that reprograms the limbic brain's decision making process and helps you have exactly what you want. It must be part of the tactical and logistical strategy. That's why we'll be working with both at my live event on January 30th. (lock in your ticketand save $100 until December 31st)
Our limbic brain is the reflexive ancient part of your system that decides outcomes based on a program or strategy formed long ago for good purpose. (on purpose). Hint: We are ALWAYS on purpose.
The strategy that is our default program may not reflect who we have become and who we desire to be. That's where frustration comes in. "I've done all this work, evolved myself personally, and why am I still ________ or not _______, why does my income not match or my health or relationships?"
The question is NOT why. The question now must shift to- what do you want and what are you WILLING to do to have it?
About Destiny Jump™: Actualize Your Purpose Driven Mission
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Stephanie Trager, Esq.
Business Strategist, Success Coach
Attorney, Mediator, Consultant
Author of "Soul Success: Success Inside Out" 2016
Are you watching the news?
I'm not. Are you talking about politics? What words are you using? Our culture is spewing a lot of negativity into the cauldron of creation. If it is true that the words and intention behind them are what is actually creating our reality then we are empowered not only with a vote, but with how we speak about EVERYTHING.
How do you speak about money?
How do you speak about people you don't particularly like?
How do you speak about your health or challenges you have with you body?
The simplicity in this statement, "Change your thoughts, change your life," means nothing unless you get it for real. It doesn't mean spend 3 minutes in the morning writing your gratitude list and again before bed. It means committing on a disciplined level to change how you speak about your life and everything and everyone in it- no exceptions.
Since the affirmation community is a feel good space, there is very little instruction on how disciplined one has to become in order to truly apply these ideas or concepts. The book 'The Secret' gave a whole lot of ideas- but no strategy or step by step how to - in order to actually BE this new way of creating your life.
First it takes some truth telling. Here are 3 Reasons the Words You Use Are Creating Your Challenges (Listen to my masterclass Destiny Jump to hear the step by step HOW to change your words):
3 Reasons the Words You Use Are Creating Your Challenges
1. The way you speak about what IS, creates what you experience next.
Every moment of your waking and sleeping breath, your thoughts and how you believe the world works is creating your experience. If you believe life is difficult and you have to work really hard for your money and they'll take it anyway, and you can't trust people- then this will absolutely be your exact experience.
If you believe opportunities show up all the time and people are always there to help and you are wealth and always have more than enough, then your experience will be a whole lot different.
It's not just your belief though- it is the very way you speak about EVERYTHING that feeds your belief loop. This means you do not have to start by changing your beliefs. You begin by choosing a different experience. Then you begin speaking about everything as if that experience you are choosing is already here and you're words WILL align you to the realization of your new choice.
In sum life is about choosing every moment, how to perceive, how to speak, how to transmute into that which you would rather have instead.
2. The way you speak about what you don't like creates more of what you don't like.
To truly empower yourself, you must understand- not just intellectually but on a visceral internal, inner organ type level, that you are the master of your ship. When you speak about things you don't want or don't like- ie. political climate, worry, gossip- the exact words you string together and the intention you put into them - determine what happens next. Period. No maybes about it. (This is a science I break down in my masterclass Destiny Jump - access the replay here)
Here's an example, you are feeling anxiety about your next career move and you aren't sure what your purpose is. You know on a bigger level it has to do with 'x' yet you're not sure HOW you're supposed to actualize your true gifts or what you're supposed to do next that will get you closer to the life and contribution you want to experience.
So you tell your friends, your journal, your coach, you family, your pets... "I want to do my purpose work and I just don't know what it is. I have to leave this job but it's not easy, it sucks here and I don't know what is next. I can't figure out my purpose."
That feeling is going to perpetuate for a long time. Instead your words want to feel possibility, opportunity, open, expansive, curious, fueled by faith and certainty.
"I'm grateful to be feeling complete in my current position that has showered me with experience and abundance. I'm open and exploring wonderful possibilities and am being guided everyday toward what lights me up. This period of exploration feels so on purpose and I'm enjoying the revelations I have about myself daily."
3. The way you speak about what you want determines if you get what you want.
After reading the first two reasons, by now you may be getting the point. So I'm leaving this one to you. How are you speaking about what you want in your life? How are you choosing what you want instead of what you don't?
Do you value the power in how you speak, think and visualize your future?
I'd love to hear your comments below. What's a shift you'll make today that will change your tomorrow?
What if all of our purposes were really to change the way we are dreaming this collective experience into being? What would you dream instead and how would your words actualize that dream?
Access Here- Destiny Jump: Actualize Your Purpose Driven Mission ~ the Masterclass Instant Replay