3 Reasons Your Words Are Creating Your Challenges

Are you watching the news? 

I'm not. Are you talking about politics? What words are you using? Our culture is spewing a lot of negativity into the cauldron of creation. If it is true that the words and intention behind them are what is actually creating our reality then we are empowered not only with a vote, but with how we speak about EVERYTHING.

How do you speak about money?

How do you speak about people you don't particularly like?

How do you speak about your health or challenges you have with you body?

The simplicity in this statement, "Change your thoughts, change your life," means nothing unless you get it for real. It doesn't mean spend 3 minutes in the morning writing your gratitude list and again before bed. It means committing on a disciplined level to change how you speak about your life and everything and everyone in it- no exceptions.

Since the affirmation community is a feel good space, there is very little instruction on how disciplined one has to become in order to truly apply these ideas or concepts. The book 'The Secret' gave a whole lot of ideas- but no strategy or step by step how to - in order to actually BE this new way of creating your life.

First it takes some truth telling. Here are 3 Reasons the Words You Use Are Creating Your Challenges (Listen to my masterclass Destiny Jump to hear the step by step HOW to change your words):

3 Reasons the Words You Use Are Creating Your Challenges

1. The way you speak about what IS, creates what you experience next.

Every moment of your waking and sleeping breath, your thoughts and how you believe the world works is creating your experience. If you believe life is difficult and you have to work really hard for your money and they'll take it anyway, and you can't trust people- then this will absolutely be your exact experience. 

If you believe opportunities show up all the time and people are always there to help and you are wealth and always have more than enough, then your experience will be a whole lot different. 

It's not just your belief though- it is the very way you speak about EVERYTHING that feeds your belief loop. This means you do not have to start by changing your beliefs. You begin by choosing a different experience. Then you begin speaking about everything as if that experience you are choosing is already here and you're words WILL align you to the realization of your new choice.

In sum life is about choosing every moment, how to perceive, how to speak, how to transmute into that which you would rather have instead.

2. The way you speak about what you don't like creates more of what you don't like.

To truly empower yourself, you must understand- not just intellectually but on a visceral internal, inner organ type level, that you are the master of your ship. When you speak about things you don't want or don't like- ie. political climate, worry, gossip- the exact words you string together and the intention you put into them - determine what happens next. Period. No maybes about it. (This is a science I break down in my masterclass Destiny Jump - access the replay here)

Here's an example, you are feeling anxiety about your next career move and you aren't sure what your purpose is. You know on a bigger level it has to do with 'x' yet you're not sure HOW you're supposed to actualize your true gifts or what you're supposed to do next that will get you closer to the life and contribution you want to experience.

So you tell your friends, your journal, your coach, you family, your pets... "I want to do my purpose work and I just don't know what it is. I have to leave this job but it's not easy, it sucks here and I don't know what is next. I can't figure out my purpose."

That feeling is going to perpetuate for a long time. Instead your words want to feel possibility, opportunity, open, expansive, curious, fueled by faith and certainty.

"I'm grateful to be feeling complete in my current position that has showered me with experience and abundance. I'm open and exploring wonderful possibilities and am being guided everyday toward what lights me up. This period of exploration feels so on purpose and I'm enjoying the revelations I have about myself daily."

3. The way you speak about what you want determines if you get what you want.

After reading the first two reasons, by now you may be getting the point. So I'm leaving this one to you. How are you speaking about what you want in your life? How are you choosing what you want instead of what you don't? 

Do you value the power in how you speak, think and visualize your future? 

I'd love to hear your comments below. What's a shift you'll make today that will change your tomorrow? 

What if all of our purposes were really to change the way we are dreaming this collective experience into being? What would you dream instead and how would your words actualize that dream?

Access Here- Destiny Jump: Actualize Your Purpose Driven Mission ~ the Masterclass Instant Replay 
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Stephanie Trager, Esq.
Business Strategist, Success Coach
Business/Life/Career Transition
Attorney, Mediator, Consultant
s@stephanietrager.com
Author of "Soul Success: Success Inside Out" 2016

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