How to Claim Your Space in Transition

Transition can be stressful.  Anything can be stressful. It doesn't have to be. The trick is learning how to hold the space.  (seasons are transitions too)
(special invitation below)

Holding space is literal, proverbial, and energetic. 

Starting new work, creating your own business, moving, relationship change, or any shift or transition can be intense. Stress is our reaction. It's not the thing itself. 

Here are some tips to help you in transition so you:

1. Feel grounded in who you are, 
2. Certain about what you know, 
3. Confident about who you are becoming, and
4. Have a strategy to ease you forward 

1. Holding Space 

Holding space is intentional. It requires awareness and taking a stand for who you are, what you do and what you need. Feeling grounded in who you are means your self-image- how you see yourself- matches your actions, words and expressions. When you're clear and grounded here, you won't be swayed by how 'others' see you. 

2. Get Clear On These Two Questions:
"Who am I?" & "What do you do?"

If you're living an intentional life, on purpose - what you do is about who you are. When you're solid in who you are- identity- purpose- your unique gifts and talents- the core feeling of Soul in your work- then you'll show up more powerfully in everything you do- especially when you match that clarity with outward expression. 

You''ll exude influence. 

"What do You Do?"
I encourage you to dig deeper than just the title of your profession. (Ie. I"m a lawyer. Or I"m an employment lawyer.) We all know there are a hundred different areas in employment law- what's yours? What do you actually do for people? What special uniqueness do you bring to your work? Infuse purpose-even if your work is not your 'ideal purpose work.' 

If you're in career transition - this is especially important because you're redefining your story, who you are becoming. Going in with clarity of expression will help you create the outcomes you want. 

One thing you can be certain of is that you are perched in a wonderful space of rediscovery. "Hold this space intentionally." 

3. Who are you becoming?

Take time for introspection to uncover what you value, who you wish to become and what story you would like to begin claiming as yours. It's your time to step into who you are becoming... 

4. Strategy
How do you do this? 

The clarity of your message will increase your influence. 

Your words- and how you hold yourself out in the world will be aligned internally. The benefits are not only that the right opportunities will flock to you, but a deep sense of peace, confidence, and groundedness will increase your inner power. 

When you no longer have to worry, think or fret over these existential questions, or at least you come into right relationship with the process, you will have SOOooooo much energy available for increasing your powers of intuition, awareness and influence. 

The truth is 1000% clarity isn't always the result of intention or strategy. It's knowing how to HOLD the clarity that does come while the rest is sorting itself out in divine timing -being in right relationship with the process -holding the space.

I can help you!

In my Leadership Branding with Archetypes Private Mini Virtual Retreat

Because my clients simply LOVE this part of their Private Elite Coaching Program, I decided to offer it for the very first time as a separate mini virtual retreat experience... read more here... 

It's an awesome opportunity and will help you with clarity and STRATEGY FORWARD around:

• "Who am I?" 
• "What's my purpose?" 
• "What do I really do?" 
• "Who do I want to become?" 
• "How do I leverage my gifts?" 
• "How do I position my talent?" 

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Special OFFER for YOU! 

This is all about ACKNOWLEDGING YOUR BRILLIANCE inside and out!

Leadership Branding with Archetypes Experience
This Leadership Branding with Archetypes Experience will help you finally:

• • ​Capture your spirit, personality and passion into an authentic leadership and personal brand promise you can use in all your marketing, prospecting, promotions, and visibility design 

• • Instantly create a hot marketing message -elevator share- (you'll love the template I’ll coach you through in this module) that helps you stand out from the crowd and internally anchor who you are as the leader of your business, career and your life

• • Identify your unique brilliance and use it as a powerful catalyst for focusing your gifts and talents on your most profitable actions - In transition? It's essential you know and feel certain about your unique brilliance and how you are meant to best express it in the world

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• • Tap into your innate gifts and talents and position yourself in new and creative ways through the lens of your strengths and values. You no longer need to fit in a mold not meant for you. This is your opportunity to create your paradigm intentionally and leverage what makes you unique

• • Use your Leadership Branding Archetypes to step into a new level of power, influence and leadership in your career and in your life. Archetypes help us step out of the left brain analytical problem solving space and into the creative, imaginative and mythic place where we expand our potential, claim it, own it and bring it into a practical forward facing plan

 Learn more here -

If you'd like to see if this is a fit for you, schedule a call on my calendar here or hit reply to this email. More clarity, and concise messaging means MORE INFLUENCE!

Intentionally!

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Stephanie Trager, Esq.
Business Strategist, Success Coach
Business/Life/Career Transition
Attorney, Mediator, Consultant
s@stephanietrager.com
There is No Limit to Your Potential!
Author of "Soul Success: Success Inside Out" 2016
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